It has been several weeks since I have blogged and I have missed it. There have been some wonderful changes for the girls and I. As the girls are getting a little bit older ... they have been showing interest of attending "a" school. Ha! That is an interesting thought since we have homeschooled for 6 years. I felt a bit saddened to hear of their curiosities yet happy to see them blossom with confidence and adventure and to take on the challenge. But, of course that means they will have to put up with me thoroughly investigating every school in town. Yes, you heard it right!
As the story goes ... I did investigate as though I thought I did. I choose a private school and I sent the girls to stay an entire day to see what it is like to be at school all day long. I too stayed for a while and then left and about cried hoping they would hate it. I arrived to school super early and the only mom sitting in the parking lot with my window rolled down listening to the activity inside the open door classrooms from my car. I sat and waited eagerly to hear of how their day went.
School is now over and I get them from their classrooms and hop in the car and they "loved" being at school! I about died inside yet came alive instantly! So, we went back the next day and I enrolled them. About a week and a half goes by and I am hearing an increase of things that I don't like to hear and the girls are concerned as well. Kayla would report how the teacher is nice but lectures everyday about what they won't be able to do in middle school. She reported daily how there was little to zilch math instruction on the board. Mainly worksheets and then go over answers ... then of course the weekly "packet" of homework that I mainly had to sit with them and do. What it their homework or mine? I would say mine!
I about died! No way was I going to sit daily in the evenings and do homework! I believe they are at school 6-7 hours a day and they should have plenty of time to get their work done in class. After all, we did homeschool and I taught them for 6 years so I know how long it takes to teach and get the work done!
Two weeks go by and it is the same soggy story of concern from my kids and they were telling me that I am paying for a waste of their time. Love them kids! So, I then went to the one last school that I didn't go to as I thought it was something else that didn't fall into my "Category " of a quality school. I am very picking and the outside of a building needs to look a certain way before I even park in front of it. ha,ha,ha!
Thank goodness I choose to stop at the school and walk thru the front gate one morning. It is a expeditionary school and it was amazing! The leadership, teachers, the interaction with the kids.... everything! The atmosphere was almost to strange to be for real in the fact that the kids in the class seemed to want to be there and were wanting to learn and in a way that I myself had never seen or experienced. Two days later I brought the girls to stay a day to see and experience the difference ... after all at this point ... they only know of homeschool and the one private school. I stayed for 7 hours and visited with the director and I stayed and observed both classrooms. Within a couple of hours I new for sure this was it and .... it was. We enrolled and are loving it! My kids love it and everyday they come home from school with an ear full of EVERYTHING they did during their day. AMAZING! The main difference is the way the material is presented. It is presented in a way that is intriguing and captivating to a child to want more and it works. My oldest can't wait to write a book report, she loves her quiet reading time and talks about how math is so amazing and how the teacher explains it in a way that keeps her positive and her light bulb is on shinning brightly. My youngest says she is doing things in class not to just have fun but that she is learning at the same time and she loves her math and spanish daily.
As a former homeschool mother ... putting your kids in school is a hard decision to make. If the atmosphere in its whole is right then the transition is easy. I can breathe and know that the end of the day my kids are happy, feel safe, the kids surrounding them are nice, and most importantly they are learning .. not only school subjects but about life.
Trisha